Childhood Adversity and its Echoes in Adult Intimate Relationships


Authors : Anshika Jain; Dr. Shivani Tomar

Volume/Issue : Volume 10 - 2025, Issue 7 - July


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Abstract : Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are associated with long-term emotional and relational difficulties, particularly in adult romantic relationships. This review aims to examine how early exposure to abuse, neglect, and dysfunctional family environments impacts adult attachment styles, emotional regulation, communication patterns, and self- esteem. A thematic literature review of relevant empirical studies was conducted to explore these psychological mechanisms. The findings suggest that ACEs often result in insecure attachment, emotional dysregulation, and difficulties with trust, intimacy, and conflict resolution. However, the presence of supportive caregiving and resilience-building experiences can mitigate these effects. The review also identifies significant Lack of empirical evidence, particularly regarding the differential impact of ACE types and the influence of gender, culture, and socioeconomic factors. These insights underscore the importance of trauma-informed interventions and culturally responsive therapeutic strategies to enhance relational and psychological well-being in adults with a history of childhood adversity.

Keywords : Adverse Childhood Experiences, Attachment Theory, Emotional Regulation, Romantic Relationships.

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Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are associated with long-term emotional and relational difficulties, particularly in adult romantic relationships. This review aims to examine how early exposure to abuse, neglect, and dysfunctional family environments impacts adult attachment styles, emotional regulation, communication patterns, and self- esteem. A thematic literature review of relevant empirical studies was conducted to explore these psychological mechanisms. The findings suggest that ACEs often result in insecure attachment, emotional dysregulation, and difficulties with trust, intimacy, and conflict resolution. However, the presence of supportive caregiving and resilience-building experiences can mitigate these effects. The review also identifies significant Lack of empirical evidence, particularly regarding the differential impact of ACE types and the influence of gender, culture, and socioeconomic factors. These insights underscore the importance of trauma-informed interventions and culturally responsive therapeutic strategies to enhance relational and psychological well-being in adults with a history of childhood adversity.

Keywords : Adverse Childhood Experiences, Attachment Theory, Emotional Regulation, Romantic Relationships.

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