Authors :
Farid Rusman; Ishomuddin; Vina Salviana Darvina Soedarwo; Wahyudi
Volume/Issue :
Volume 7 - 2022, Issue 10 - October
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DOI :
https://doi.org/10.5281/zenodo.7325361
Abstract :
This study aims to understand interpersonal
communication and the development of the structure of
the relationship between husband and wife in three
marriage pairs with a modern Javanese background.
The approach uses a qualitative approach. While the
research method uses Alfred Schutz's version of the
phenomenological method. The results of this study
found that communication that took place in the premarital period (dating) was less productive in gaining
knowledge about the partner, and resulted in problems
after marriage. In the first 5 years of marriage, problems
develop to affect the husband-wife relationship, to the
point of developing conflict or hostile relations, as a
result of economic problems. The conflict subsided after
the husband communicated an apology and a promise to
remedy the situation. Negotiations took place to agree on
continuing the marriage relationship. The wife's efforts
to continue the husband-wife relationship structure as
applied in her parents' family were rejected by the
husband who chose an equal relationship structure
between husband and wife.The results of this study can
provide a conceptual picture of the relationship between
husband and wife with different ethnic backgrounds.
Subsequent research needs to explain more deeply that is
extended to more than one married couple so that the
research findings are more varied and dynamic.
Keywords :
Communication, Relationships, Family, Husband, Wife, Social, Culture.
This study aims to understand interpersonal
communication and the development of the structure of
the relationship between husband and wife in three
marriage pairs with a modern Javanese background.
The approach uses a qualitative approach. While the
research method uses Alfred Schutz's version of the
phenomenological method. The results of this study
found that communication that took place in the premarital period (dating) was less productive in gaining
knowledge about the partner, and resulted in problems
after marriage. In the first 5 years of marriage, problems
develop to affect the husband-wife relationship, to the
point of developing conflict or hostile relations, as a
result of economic problems. The conflict subsided after
the husband communicated an apology and a promise to
remedy the situation. Negotiations took place to agree on
continuing the marriage relationship. The wife's efforts
to continue the husband-wife relationship structure as
applied in her parents' family were rejected by the
husband who chose an equal relationship structure
between husband and wife.The results of this study can
provide a conceptual picture of the relationship between
husband and wife with different ethnic backgrounds.
Subsequent research needs to explain more deeply that is
extended to more than one married couple so that the
research findings are more varied and dynamic.
Keywords :
Communication, Relationships, Family, Husband, Wife, Social, Culture.
