Authors : Lerma J. Divinagracia; Manuel V. Estera

Volume/Issue : Volume 11 - 2026, Issue 1 - January

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DOI : https://doi.org/10.38124/ijisrt/26jan532

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Abstract : This study explores how parents manage their children’s gadget usage and examine how these strategies shape the quality of family relationships. Focusing on families in Gubat, Sorsogon, this research investigates the various techniques parents employ to regulate screen time, supervise digital activities, and encourage balanced technology use. It also considers parents’ perceptions of both the opportunities and the risks that digital devices bring into the home, particularly in relation to communication patterns, family bonding, and overall household dynamics. Guided by a mixed-methods research design, the study gathered quantitative data from parents of children ages 6 to 16 through structured questionnaire, complemented by qualitative insights obtained from open-ended responses. These data captured both common practices and deeper personal experiences regarding screen time limits, content monitoring, household technology rules, shared digital engagement, and the promotion of alternative recreational routines. The findings revealed that active, communicative, and collaborative parenting strategies contribute significantly to healthier and more harmonious family relationships. Approaches that involve negotiating rules, discussing digital content, and spending time together in both digital and non-digital activities strengthen mutual trust, enhance communication, and foster a supportive home environment. In contrast, highly restrictive, punitive, or inconsistently applied strategies often lead to increased parent–child conflict, reduced openness, and weakened cooperation. Parents acknowledged the benefits of gadget use—such as educational value, entertainment, and convenience—yet also expressed concerns regarding excessive screen exposure, reduced interpersonal interaction, and the risk of encountering inappropriate content. Overall, the study emphasizes the importance of balanced, flexible, and developmentally appropriate management strategies that combine clear expectations with open communication and supportive guidance. Such strategies are essential for promoting healthy digital habits while preserving positive family interactions. The implications highlight the need for parent education initiatives focused on digital literacy and responsible screen time, as well as the role of schools and community organizations in supporting families through digital citizenship programs and capacity-building activities. By underscoring the shared responsibility of parents, educators, and local stakeholders, the study advocates for collaborative efforts to nurture healthy digital behaviors and strengthen family well-being in an increasingly technology-driven society.

Keywords : Parental Strategies, Gadget Usage, Children, Family Relationships, Screen Time, Digital Behavior, Digital Literacy.

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